Meet other newbies and our delightful regulars over a casual drink so you don't have to walk in alone!

We get it, we really, really get it.

You're new, you're nervous, you have no idea what to expect and frankly your skinny pals probably won't understand why you want to come to a place where you finally feel like you fit in.

You can join all the facebook and discord groups you want (both of which we have!) but when it comes to walking into a new place IN REAL, that's the real challenge.

Here's the thing - we've ALL done it. Most of the people who come to Indulge came alone, but they keep coming back because they met their new BFFs. They met people who looked like them, and found their tribe - so I just know you can too!

Sure, join the facebook and discord. But the best way to help you walk in will be by coming to the pre-meet. Before each event, we invite regulars and newbies alike to come to a casual drink where you can chat to others in the same situation, and not feel like you need to stand at the bar waiting for someone to talk to you! We post where we can about them, but it's always best to check here just before each event to find out where we will be - and JOIN US!

Next Pre-meet


 7PM-8PM - Crutched Friars pub, 39-41 Crutched Friars, London EC3N 2AE

These are really informal, so we can't always guarantee who or how many people will be there! We suggest heading to the big table on the left as you walk in - just look out for the nervous plus size people!


Chat to other Indulgers if you're still feeling shy.

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